5 February 2012, 11:08 am
Okay, im currently friends with 2 women and i really like them both. The 1st one ive always had a crush on and up until recently we were friends but never much else, however as she doesnt live close by i rarely see her but when i do we always hit it off and have a laugh together. Just before christmas she splits with her boyfriend and explains to me over FB what happened etc, so being the nice guy i am i support her and tell her if there's anything i can do or if she needs to talk i'm here. Needless to say she was in a horrible place emtionally but over the next 2 months she cheers up and seems to be getting back on track. Christmas appears and as usual she comes up to visit her parents only this time she gave me the heads up so i could book the week off work and spend it with her, during this time she probably spends like 4-5 days out of the week at mine we didnt have sex during this time basically because alcohol screws any hopes of getting it up. When she came back to mine we'd just kiss and lay together. Then New Year comes and she's back up so again we spend most of the time together and she comes back to mine again except this one night where i stay at hers. We get to kissing and then she stops me and says she cant, so i dont pressure her i stop and say thats fine, if you dont want to then you dont have to.. i grab her and hold her and she says sorry. I tell her its okay and that if she doesnt wanna do anything im cool with it, 5 seconds later she's on top of me and we are going at it like rabbits. Needless to say this was a shock but who cares at this point, now im not the most experience lover in the world or anything but 10-15mins into it she's digging her nails into me and biting my shoulder after like 30mins she kicks me off and im like.. 'but im not finished'. So that ends that, the spends the remaining 2 days at mine then goes homes. Now the issue now is i dont know what to make of all this, she says she likes me and that im a great, nice guy but she just wants to be friends. So i say thats fine if thats what you want thats fine but you know how i feel about you etc, then one night after a night drinking i text her and say something a friend wouldnt normally say and she gets alittle angry at me saying 'i thought we'd discussed this etc' so i go to sleep and apologise in the morning and then everything is okay. A few days pass and she texts me saying whats up etc and i explain the same old. HOWEVER Im currently friends with this lovely 19 year old who acts very mature and sensible for her age, we have loads in common and we go out together regularly.. we enjoy each others company and spend most of the time laughing, we go out drinking, to shows and for food, the odd occasion she'll come to mine and we'll watch a film then she'll go home. Back to my main story, the first girl texts me and says her laptop is broke/playing up, so i tell her how to fix it and it works, but she then says its running slow etc. I text her saying i'll fix it when i get home from work, i get home and use a remote access program to run her laptop from mine and i spend the next 4 hours on a saturday night trying to help. After about 4 hours i get a text from the 19 year old asking if i can access her laptop and check out this popup she got, which is what i told her to do if she was ever unsure. So i say i'll log on it in a sec, i tell the first girl i have to leave and to let the programs run the scans i'd set and i'd be back shortly cos this friend needs my help. I text her when im done and she like 'oh it doesnt matter now im in bed' I text her asking if its because i helped this other girl and then she posts shit on FB saying how she just realised the that i didnt think she was as special as id been saying. I get pretty pissed and have a go at her, she ends up breaking the friendship off and im left saying WTF? A few days later she texts me needing my help again with the laptop and after im done we talk for a bit and agree we acted wrongly and we should go back to being friends. Fast Forward a month and she's texting me one night whilst im at this Private Party and she's starting to get all talkative about her feelings and said 'i think about you alot, i dont know what that means but i do. so thought you deserved to know' Now given shes already had a go about making something between us more than friends in texts etc i reply with 'well i cant help you with that thats something you need to figure out yourself' she gets pissed off at this and has a go. So i explain i dont wanna talk about via text wait till your up again and we'll talk in person. She agrees and we end the convo. I tell the other girl about all this and she's supportive etc but then the following week she seems to be avoiding me, usually we go out once or twice a week and text each other all the time, but she .. but she just seems alittle off with me and im not sure if its because of this thing with the other girl. The 19 year old made it clear she's not interested in relationships or anything like that and i've known this awhile. However based on this im starting to think she might have had feelings for me and i've crush any hope of something other than friendship with her. Im kinda torn here because i really like both of these girls and whilst i have feelings towards the first, basically because i always have i cant help but have similar feelings for the other one too, i mean we really do have alot in common and get on really well not to mention she's absolutely stunning, but not just that she's so easy to be around there is rarely ever an awkward moment between us. However im just not sure if she genuinely is busy with work and forgot to get back to me as she says or if she's hurt cos ive got feelings and the possibility of a relationship with this other girl.... Read More »
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